I always took it for granted to have a no-guilt no-should cancellation policy.
What that means is that whenever i make plans, if anything at all comes up (even just feeling like staying home and reading) i allow full cancellation with no guilt required. this relaxes me and makes me see relationships differently than contractual work, and i beleive that it gives permission and even tests the depth of the love...
I think that love sometimes means letting the other person be disappointed. But NEVER means doing anything out of “should” or guilt, i mean this is how i used to act with my mom...and i'm sure many people disagree
Apparently many people get upset with me for this, but since i accept it for the people i love they should be able to accept it for me…
What that means is that whenever i make plans, if anything at all comes up (even just feeling like staying home and reading) i allow full cancellation with no guilt required. this relaxes me and makes me see relationships differently than contractual work, and i beleive that it gives permission and even tests the depth of the love...
I think that love sometimes means letting the other person be disappointed. But NEVER means doing anything out of “should” or guilt, i mean this is how i used to act with my mom...and i'm sure many people disagree
Apparently many people get upset with me for this, but since i accept it for the people i love they should be able to accept it for me…
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