I am constantly afraid that someone might be manipulating me. It really bothers me and i think it could be paranoa. But then i think about it and i beleive that i should be trusting my instincts and my feelings for i tend to throw myself in a naive kind of way and that doesnt mean my trust is misplaced, it only means my guards are down and thats no good.
Boundaries are super important and we should never lose control of them no matter who the other is, for it is for a reason that we physically sepaerate when we are born from the closest person we will ever get to : our mom. And like they say: the human being will leave his parents to join his partner , but even then they will never merge into one entity.
So it is a right to have our space our needs our wants our ideas our behaviors and our boundaries and it is our duty to protect them whithout falling into extremes.
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